29.1.07
this was my 8th year anniversary. spoke to my son in the morning while sending him to school. he said that he was afraid to ask his mother about doing stuffs like colouring etc cos the mom will say no angrily. he said that the mum will say that she is tired or had to take care of mira. i said that i say no to him most of the time. he said it was ok if i said no.
that evening, i told the missus when i fetched her from school. she of course was surprised. i said that this is wat he is saying and wat u want to do is up to u.
that evening after dinner and bath, mum got him to do art and craft. i suppose she asked him whether he wants to do it or not. i was watching tv in the room when he came in and gave me a cut out dress coloured in different shades. at the back was I LOVE YOU ABAH… i smiled and said thank you. i told him to write the date for me as i keep his drawings. he came back and told me that he had written ummi as well becos ummi asked him to do one for her. he told me he was tired and just put her name back there and asked if i was ok with it. i said ok.
i told the mother what he did and she said where got fair, i did it with him and he out ur name.
the dress goes along with the crab he made for me.